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Recalculating

As a working mother, at this time of year I feel like I’m staring at the GPS of my life and it’s stuck on that all-too-familiar screen that simply reads, “Recalculating.” With new school schedules, sports schedules, activity schedules, meal times, bus times, dropoff and pickup times, homework times, and bedtimes….everything is one big tangle of newness.  I don’t quite have my bearings yet; I’m venturing a guess that you might not either.

And believe me, I’m the kind of girl who cherishes having her bearings. I’m not so great at living in a state of perpetual adaptation. But that’s what September brings, so that’s my life right now. As a result, until our schedule settles into place, I’m trying things on for size but not forcing myself to make any declarations of how things will be until I’m good and ready. I’m living with the questions instead of having all the answers.

I’m watching my three munchkins wrestle with the changes, too. Except rather than living with the questions, my kiddos are looking to me to have the answers. Sometimes they don’t even ask them out loud, preferring that I infer the question from their little upturned, tear-stained faces. Other times, they actually ask.

Why am I so hungry at bedtime?” (Because we had dinner at 5:45 – which is the only way it works before soccer – and you’re used to eating an hour later.)

“Why did we miss the bus?” (Because, for the love of God, it hasn’t come at the same time two days in a row since school started!)

“Why don’t I have a lunchbox this year? I had one last year! Remember?” (Because this year you get home from kindergarten at 11:15 and last year you were in preschool till 1:00. It doesn’t make sense to me either, honey. In fact, so far I’ve forgotten this fact – TWICE – and packed a lunch for you in last year’s lunchbox!)

“Why are my clothes all laid out in a row on the floor?” (Because I refuse to dig for matching socks at 6:45 AM. Plus, this way we stand a better than 50% chance of you putting on all the pieces of your outfit and me making it downstairs dressed, too.)

“Why can’t I play on your iPad?” (Because you have 30 minutes of reading to squeeze into the next 24 minutes.)

“What’s my Edline password? Xtramath password? Superkids password? Go Math password? Disney Junior password? Magazine drive website password? School lunch code? Bus number? Bus SEAT number?” (AAAAAARGH.)

“Why are you going to Meet the Teacher night? Didn’t you just GO to Meet the Teacher night?” (I am on my 5th event so far this month with a title that includes the words “Meet the Teacher.” I’ll keep going as long as I keep getting invited. I like teachers. Especially yours.)

“Did you really go to bed at 8:30 last night, Mom?” (Yup.)

This is not our easy season, fellow moms. Buckle up for a little turbulence till things settle out. In a few weeks, we’ll all have the hang of this and we’ll be sailing through October with a Pumpkin Spice Latte in hand. Pinky swear. Till then, let’s use “Recalculating” as our mantra and sneak in a little deep breathing here and there. We’ve got this.

Chicken and Vegetable Kebabs with Creamy Pesto Dipping Sauce

Nothing says Labor Day like a barbecue…and nothing upgrades a barbecue like a chicken and vegetable kebab with a creamy pesto dipping sauce! You’ll have more energy for that game of volleyball or for a dip in the pool  if you eat something not quite as heavy as hamburgers, hot dogs, and potato salad drenched in mayonnaise.

I promise that this recipe is a cinch to double, triple, or quadruple if you’re cooking for a crowd and your kids will love threading everything onto the skewers. Your guests will adore you for feeding them a meal they can feel great about eating that’s delicious, too!

 

Chicken and Vegetable Kebabs with Creamy Pesto Dipping Sauce
serves 4

 

Ingredients

2 teaspoons grated lemon rind

4 teaspoons fresh lemon juice, divided

2 teaspoons minced garlic

2 teaspoons olive oil

1/2 teaspoon salt

1/4 teaspoon black pepper

8 (1 inch) pieces yellow bell pepper

8 cherry tomatoes

1 pound skinless, boneless chicken breasts, cut into 1 inch pieces

1 small red onion cut into 8 wedges

cooking spray

4 tablespoons plain nonfat Greek yogurt

1 tablespoon prepared pesto

 

Directions

1.  Preheat grill (or broiler).

2.  Combine rind, 1 tablespoon juice, garlic and next three ingredients.  Thread vegetables and chicken onto 4 (12 inch) skewers.  Brush with lemon/oil mixture. Place skewers on a hot grill or onto a  broiler pan coated with cooking spray.  Broil or grill 12 minutes or until chicken is cooked through, turning occasionally.

3.  Combine remaining 1 teaspoon juice, yogurt, and pesto.  Serve sauce with kebabs.

Black Beans & Rice

Once or twice a week, I cook a meatless meal. It was a bit of an adjustment for my family at first, years ago, but now it seems perfectly natural. This particular favorite was originally made with white rice, but I upgraded that to brown at some point. In the spirit of full disclosure, I will normally cook the rice in advance and then just reheat it with the other ingredients on the night we’re eating the dish. That way I can have rice simmering away while I’m doing other things one evening and I can skip the 50 minute cooking time on a night when everyone is ravenous! These little prep tricks make all the difference when there’s not much time between your arrival home from work and your family’s dinner time!

If you’d rather use the “90 second” brown rice that they sell in pouches at the grocery store, knock yourself out. Nutritionally speaking, it’s not any different than cooking it yourself , as long as you’re buying the unflavored variety. The flavored ones are loaded with added sodium, so I’d stay away from those.

Try this easy dish – make a fruit salad or a tossed salad to go with it and you’re set up for a quick, healthy meal.

 

Black Beans & Rice

serves 4 as a main dish

 

Ingredients

2 cups water

1 teaspoon kosher salt, divided

1 cup long-grain brown rice

3 bay leaves

1 tablespoon vegetable oil

1 cup chopped onions

1 green bell pepper, chopped

1 chili pepper or jalepeno (fresh or canned) seeded and minced

2 gloves garlic, minced

2 cups cooked black beans, drained and rinsed

 

Directions:

1.  Bring water and 1/2 teaspoon of salt to a boil.  Add the rice and bay leaves, reduce to a gentle simmer, cover, and let cook for 50 minutes, until all the water is absorbed.  Remove the bay leaves.

2.  Meanwhile, heat the oil in a skillet.  Add the onions, bell pepper, chili pepper, and garlic.  Cook over moderate heat, stirring frequently, until the onions turn gold.  Keep covered between stirrings.  Stir in the black beans and remaining salt.  Heat through.

3.  Toss the beans with rice and, if necessary, warm through.