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Let Them Get Their Hands Dirty!

Getting kids to eat healthy food is a vexing problem for countless moms. With a steady diet of macaroni and cheese, chicken nuggets, and fruit snacks, those little bodies can seem to reject healthier and more varied options! If you’re struggling with a finicky eater, one of the best things you can do is to get your child involved in cooking!

Before you roll your eyes and click that little x to close this article, hear me out. The data is clear that children are far more likely to try a new food if they’ve helped to prepare it. But having the kids in the kitchen doesn’t have to be a messy, time-consuming nightmare. Giving them simple, age-appropriate tasks to do when you’re prepping a meal or a snack can even be fun. What kid doesn’t love getting his or her hands dirty?

Here are several ways you can get your kids involved in cooking healthy foods that will make them far more likely to eat what’s on the table!

1 – Dress the part – Most kids love to dress up, so drag out those aprons and chefs hats if you have them. Their interest in this may wane as they grow older but the littlest ones love to look like a “real chef” while they’re in the kitchen. For what it’s worth, I still love to wear an apron when I’m cooking…and it keeps my clothes clean, too!

2 – Prep veggies – Let little ones shuck corn on the cob, wash beans, tear lettuce, use a butter knife to cut cucumbers and peppers, or spin the salad spinner. They love putting the ingredients together and often can’t help themselves from tasting here and there, too!

3 – Make fruit salad – Pick grapes off the stems, use a butter knife to cut up pieces of melon and strawberries, wash blackberries and blueberries…and of course, mix it all up in a bowl! Fruit salad is almost always a hit with children and when they make it themselves they’re even more likely to eat it.

4 – Stir those side dishes – Even something as simple as stirring the bowl of rice or pasta or mashed potatoes can make kids feel like they had a hand in creating the meal. If you let them mix in the seasonings, they’ll feel like a chef in training!

5 – Make a condiment tray – Kids are often more willing to try a vegetable or meat they would normally shun if you let them top it with a favorite condiment. Get a small tray or caddy and let them select a few condiments to bring to the table. I often say I don’t care if kids put chocolate syrup on that broccoli as long as they are eating broccoli! Let them have some fun with this. You may even find a few combinations you like (toasted sesame oil and rice vinegar on snow peas for example).

As the kids’ skills advance, you can give them bigger jobs in the kitchen, letting them take part in meal planning, grocery shopping, or using the oven or stove. Our national obsession with the Food Network is telling you something…our children are intrigued by cooking; letting them get their hands dirty just may get them excited about the very foods you want them to try!

 

My life as a sprinter

Back in the day, I ran marathons. And not just the 26.2 mile races on foot, though I did those, too. My LIFE was a marathon. I worked 10 or 12 hour days, enjoyed full-day shopping excursions at the mall, spent entire afternoons reading a book in a chair. I went for three-hour runs on the weekends, went to graduate school at night, and cleaned the house top to bottom in one fell swoop at least once a week. There was no need to hurry nor to take breaks;  I set a pace I could sustain and I kept at it, day in and day out, for years. My own marathon.

At some point along this course called life, I evolved from a marathoner into a sprinter. With my own company to run and three kids in the house, my days now are more likely to look like this:

Wake up early and SPRINT through a workout before the kids wake up and need me. Answer a few emails and tidy up.

Pause to cool down and snuggle a waking child or two (or three).

SPRINT through shower and hair and makeup and dressing routine. Make beds/dress children/supervise teeth brushing.

Pause to make breakfast (and a fresh pot of coffee or tea on a good day).

SPRINT to get kids on the bus/off to camp/settled in with Granny. Pack bags with computer/files/ iPhone/Target returns and  load them into SUV.

Pause to find NPR or Coffeehouse on the radio (inevitably turning off Radio Disney to do so) for some quasi-peaceful quiet drive time.

SPRINT to get in an hour or two of work before the first client appointment.

Pause to cherish unhurried time with a client…listening, listening.

SPRINT to handle Target returns/eat lunch/shop for a new toilet paper holder (or ridiculous necessity of the day).

Pause to check in with John and/or the kids & Granny.

SPRINT to write blog post/make sales calls/confirm client appointments/research new software/watch a webinar/troubleshoot a client issue/make pediatrician appointments.

Pause to meet with another client or someone on the Nourish team.

SPRINT to drive home/talk to girlfriend/plan a birthday party/make a grocery list in my head.

Pause to give hugs and collect kisses and marvel over craft projects.

SPRINT to make dinner/go through mail/tidy up kitchen/change clothes.

Pause to give thanks around the table and share the happenings of our day.

SPRINT to clean up kitchen/check email/pay bills/get to soccer practice or other event.

Pause to play.

SPRINT to give baths/ put on PJs/supervise teeth brushing/hair drying/book choosing.

Pause to read stories and say prayers.

SPRINT to finish up work/prep for next day/plan lunches/lay out clothes.

Pause to catch up with John…and read…and fall asleep…to begin again tomorrow.

 

Gone are the days of long uninterrupted stretches of…well….anything! My life is lived in snippets, and I find that I need to “train” differently for these intervals than I did for my marathons. It’s harder to coast because I can’t build much momentum in these short bursts. Long periods of focus aren’t required, but getting down to business quickly is. Stopping on a dime and picking up where I left off is mission critical. Effectively dealing with distractions and interruptions is a must.

Much like changing up your workout routine builds new muscles, so too does changing up the rhythm of your life. I’ve been a sprinter for a number of years now and I’m finally getting used to it. Some days better than others. I find that setting the right expectations helps immensely. It’s speed that matters now, not distance, so every minute counts. Being realistic about how many projects I can complete in a day of sprints helps me feel like a success rather than a failure by day’s end. I’m learning.

How is the rhythm of  YOUR life evolving? Are you noticing the changes? And most importantly, are you adjusting your training and expectations accordingly?

Is your neighborhood hazardous to your health?

When you’re buying a home, its impact on your health may not be the first thing on your mind, but perhaps it should be! The data is clear that your health and well-being are significantly impacted by the people with whom your spend your time, and since most of us spend a good deal of time with our neighbors, picking the right street counts for more than curb appeal.

Neighborhoods “influence the extent to which people adopt and maintain behaviors linked to obesity,” says Dr. Mahasin S. Mujahid of Harvard University’s School of Public Health in Boston. “Even highly motivated individuals will find it very difficult to be more physically active and eat healthy foods if they live in environments that do not help support these lifestyles.”

You know the saying “When in Rome, do as the Romans do.” From Dr. Mujahid’s quote above, it appears the same could be said for neighborhoods! Once you move in, you are very likely to adopt the lifestyle practices that those in your neighborhood uphold. That means if there’s a daily running group at 5AM or a Thursday night volleyball league, you just may be inspired to join them. Likewise, if the normal Friday night involves all you can eat nachos and margaritas at the local Mexican place, you’re likely to adopt the same practices yourself.

So, when you are looking for a new home, consider looking for clues such as: Who is out running, biking, or walking at various times of day? Is there a pool? Is there a basketball court (or lots of driveways with hoops)? Tennis courts? Is there a gym or fitness center close by?

If you have been able to attend a party or two in the neighborhood before you move in, what is the food like? Is it a healthy spread with salads and fruits or is it unhealthy burgers, brats, and chips? What restaurants are close by and how many of them serve fast food? Pay attention to these clues to get a preview of what life as a resident might be like.

Of course you can have a positive influence on your surroundings as well. No running group? Start one! Bring a big salad to the block party and introduce your neighbors to your healthy lifestyle. But if you want to make it easier on yourself, you’ll choose a healthy neighborhood up front. Doing so can make a big difference in your own health and well-being, which means it’s worth keeping an eye out for healthy neighbors along with that 3 car garage and finished basement!