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Healthy or Not? It’s not black and white…

My daughter likes to play a game she calls “Is it healthy or not?” She’s 5, so everything I do is still cool to her and apparently I spend quite a lot of time talking about this subject so it’s very very cool. The game goes something like this.


“Okay Mom – let’s play ‘Is it healthy?’  I’ll name a food and you tell me if it is healthy or not!”

You might think I’d be pretty darn good at this game. But I promise you that it is more difficult than it sounds! More often than not, my answer to her seemingly simple question is “It depends.”

Cereal? 
It depends.

Macaroni and cheese?
Depends.

French fries? Chicken? Milk?
Depends. Depends. Depends! 

Apples?
Healthy! Yes! Praise God – apples are unequivocally healthy! Whew..

Aaaaargh! I wish I could give her more straightforward answers, but I simply can’t because so much of the answer depends on the method of preparation used.

For example, a high-fiber, low-sugar, whole-grain breakfast cereal is pretty healthy! It may have a few too many additives, but I’d give it a passing grade. But Fruit Loops? Cocoa Puffs? Even Rice Krispies? Not so much.

Mac and cheese. If it’s made from scratch with a whole wheat pasta, skim milk, and a sensible amount of real cheddar it’s actually a pretty healthy food. But the kind in the box with white pasta and cheese flavored powder, maybe not so healthy.

We make homemade baked fries that are very healthy, and Ore-Ida even has a variety or two that would earn the “healthy” moniker…but any fast food or restaurant fries certainly would not.

Chicken can be grilled or baked or sauteed into a lean healthful entree. But if we’re talking about a chicken nugget, I just can’t call it healthy.

Even milk has been compromised. Organic, skim milk may well be part of a healthful diet. But sugar-laden chocolate or strawberry milk (organic or not – have you read the label on Horizon flavored milk boxes?!) just isn’t.


It’s no wonder that kids, and many adults, are confused about what exactly is healthy these days. As a way to simplify, I’m partial to Michael Pollan’s Food Rules approach. Eat food. Not too much. Mostly plants. Brilliant. In his book, he breaks down each of those principles into really simple guidelines. Things like “Avoid food products that contain ingredients that a third-grader cannot pronounce,” or “It’s not food if it arrived through the window of your car”.

The bottom line is that in today’s food environment, we need to be savvy food consumers who read labels in stores and ask servers in resataurants to get information about the nutritional profile of our food so that we can make good choices. 


All manufactured food is required to carry these labels, so it’s important to learn to read them! And restaurants are increasingly publishing nutrition information for their menus to help patrons make informed choices. If the nutrition info is not posted in the store, it’s often available upon request or online. 

McDonald’s, for example, has quite an elaborate system online in which you can “Bag a McMeal” and calculate its nutritional profile, making any customizations you’d like. And if you forgot to investigate in advance, the nutrition info for their menu is also printed on the backside of the paper tray liner. (Really! Check if you don’t believe me.) 


Earlier this year an Oregon-based chain, called Burgerville, began printing the nutrition profile of the ordered meal on their receipts….and making suggestions for how to order more healthfully! Here’s an article explaining that choice – I’ve never heard of anything else quite like it!

So while restaurants are making strides to assist us, and food manufacturers are putting info right in front of us, it’s ultimately up to us to take a moment to read the label before making an informed choice. Because in most cases, it’s just not black and white.

Put Your Own “Happy” in the Meal

I had a major mothering moment last week after my daughter’s dance class. For a number of weeks, she’d been asking me (or my mom, if she had driven her that day) to go to McDonald’s after class. As an occasional lunch indulgence for her, I’m fine with a trip to McDonald’s, but the requests seemed to have become excessive and I just couldn’t put my finger on why! For some reason, on that day, the answer came to me.

“Are you really hungry, sweetie? You had lunch an hour ago!”

“Yes. I’m starving.”

“What would you order if we went to McDonald’s?”

“Chicken nuggets, french fries and milk. Or I’d get apples if you think that’s a better choice.”

Sigh. “Hmm. Well, what if….” (EPIPHANY OCCURS HERE) “we order those things to eat but don’t get a Happy Meal this time?”

SILENCE.

“Sweetie?”

“Well….ummmm….the thing is…..then I wouldn’t get a toy, right?”

Smiling. “That’s right. But you’d have food in your belly so you wouldn’t be hungry anymore. Does that food sound good to you?”

PAUSE. “Not really.”

“So really, what you want is a toy?”

“Well….yes!”

“Okay, then what about this idea? What if we go to Target and you can choose something from the dollar aisle and then when you are hungry you can choose some food from home that actually sounds GOOD to you? You know, you don’t have to order junk food like chicken nuggets and french fries JUST to get a toy. We can find a toy you REALLY like (and that you can pick out instead of taking whatever they give you) at another store and you can have whatever healthy food sounds good to you when you are really hungry!”

“Really?! That would be AWESOME!”

Driving through town, I could not believe that I hadn’t pieced this all together sooner! It was never really about the food….it was about that little plastic TOY! Of course, food marketers and restaurants have known this for years…and I’ve studied it as a marketing tactic in multiple classes…but as a parent I just didn’t see it for what it was! In truth, I was relieved after this discussion. I felt like even at five, she’d really understood and, in fact, was a little perturbed that a company would make her order certain foods just to get their toy when OTHER companies would sell the toys by themselves! I was excited about helping her disentangle her desire for the toy from her desire for the food.

When we got home later that day I started googling Happy Meal just to see the latest buzz. I was surprised and really encouraged to read about a law passed (coincidentally, also LAST WEEK) in a California county banning food marketers from offering toys to children unless the meals meet specific nutritional guidelines. That’s brilliant!

Separately, I found this NY Times Article outlining the effect of televised food ads on children’s eating habits. We’ve all had the experience of our child seeing a commercial and immediately begging for the product or food that is advertised – it’s unreal! And it’s tough to fight as a parent.

Nonetheless, it is my belief that as parents, we hold the ultimate responsibility for educating our children by exposing advertising and promotion tactics for what they are – persuasive tactics designed to influence our purchase behavior. How easily we can forget as we fall victim to the same tactics when they are applied to the latest shade of lipstick, the designer bag, or the miracle face cream.

It’s only been a week since our discussion, but I’m pleased to report that there haven’t been any requests for McDonald’s this week! I only wish I could say the same for my own advertising-induced purchases…there is the matter of that Nars lipstick I just bought at Sephora at the recommendation of the kind editors at InStyle. But, hey, at least I didn’t have to buy fried chicken to get it!